Influx Subscription, telegraf / kapacitor



for days im working on getting influxdb subscriptions. Im able to create a subscription (CREATE SUBSCRIPTION) on a certain database to a remote host… the remote host is succesfully receiving the data, kapacitor stats ingress shows updated points…
in the same output from kapacitor stats ingress, it shows the correct database.
However…when im trying to fetch data from that database, it seems the database doesnt exist…makes sense because the influx> show databases doesnt show the database either…
when I do a check with chronograf it also doesnt show up with the “subscribed” database…
I tried creating an empty database with the same name as the subscription database but it doenst fill up

What setting am i missing…?